DATING EXCUSES YOU MUST ALWAYS AVOID USING

Hey it’s me again; I am here today with very important tips to pass on to you that it cannot wait. We al all love making excuses some are genuine some are not. First of all we don’t want out date to think of us as excuse makers that is a wrong message to send to your date on the first date. We all hate excuses don’t we?

You don’t want her going home thinking what a jerk so many excuses in one night or what a girl darn she good with excuses. We don’t want that. So I have compiled a list of excuse we always make and to avoid using them on your first date.

1.      Sorry for coming late, I got caught in traffic

2.      Sorry for coming late, I had a flat tire

3.      Sorry for coming late, I closed kinder late from work

4.      I’m so sorry I never been on a date before

5.      I am sorry I had a kid emergency.

We don’t want her ending the relationship that hasn’t even started at the date dinner. We want her to like us or him to like us. Take my advice stay clear of those excuses when you are going on a date try to not be late so you don’t have to use any off them OK?

LET LOVE SLEEP OR JUST GIVE UP ON IT OR DON’T

If love is so wonderful, as so many poems beautifully write about in rhymes, shouldn’t people pursue it?

Now we all know that love could change your life and at the same time it could also destroy you. My heart bleeds every time I read in the papers that someone committed suicide because of love. You see love does have its negative effects.

Don't they look happy

We still have to risk it if we want to feel the love. We risk putting out heart out and letting someone take it from us but also hoping that that person will love us back and not break the heart. I read this love note sticker it read “ If you break my heart I will still love you with all the little pieces” I liked it a lot because it shows life does go on should I just kill myself because she said she was no longer interest or should she drug herself because of him huh?

Ladies and gentlemen while we love with our hearts lets also put a brain in it and not let reason walk out the window in our dating and relationship adventure. Because for every adventure we embark on we are bound to face hard times and good times but we still have to move on and hope we get to succeed. At the end of it we have a story to tell don’t we now? So have fun and enjoy your day

AN INTOXICATING LOVE (A POEM ABOUT LOVE)

I want to take you on a little trip from my usual tips giving and advice post to a new thing I will like to call erotic lyrics.

“Many water cannot quench love, rivers cannot wash it away”

Do the above make sense to you or should I explain further. Well the above is two lovers always declaring how to feel towards each other freely there is no shame in love but pride.

Love and Nature

Every time you turn on the radio and zip to any station, what you are likely to hear is……..”Love Songs” Songs of new love, songs  of disappointed love, songs of grateful love, songs of crazy love and songs of painful love. Times have changed but through history the flow of love songs still remains constant. Ok the sound has been changed a little but it still talks about the same thing Love.

Erotic songs, romantic songs played just to put you in the mood. It’s funny how one song can make you feel like you want to fly. Some songs actually speak to you and you suddenly like that singer because you have something in common.

Erotic lyrics show no embarrassment about lovers enjoying each other’s bodies, and talking about it. Lets imagine this for a sec “lovers love to look at each other, they love to tell each other what they feel. The revel in sensuous: the beauty of nature, the scent of perfumes and spices. They are openly erotic. Their intoxication with love sounds quite up-to-date not so different from what you hear on the radio.”

 Yet songs convey a very different atmosphere from most modern love songs. The explicit lyrics never become even slightly dirty. This love came from the Garden of Eden when both man and woman were both naked and unashamed of each other’s bodies.

Unashamed Of The World

And yes I do read the bible it helps brings light to some things that are in the dark. If you like these articles feel free to become a follower thank you and enjoy your day.

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HOT NEW DATING TIPS FOR YOUR HOT DATE PART ONE

It’s me again bringing you  hot new tips for you date, now we all want to make the best impression on our dates right? Whether it’s the girl or it’s the guy we all want to give them a night they will never forget. Something to go home and fall asleep thinking about, wouldn’t that be great...........
Even if this was a blind date that you were set up by your friends or colleagues at work who are really worried about you we still don’t want the girl to think we are boring or we’ve been out of the dating scene for so long.

 Here is what you need to do for guys only now……

1. You have to be there 20minutes before the time you are to meet.
2. Settle down and be calm at all times.
3. Get use to the environment where you are meeting take advantage of knowing the evening’s special is.
4. Greet her with a smile stand to her when she comes in.
5. Avoid looking at her too much cause it will make her uneasy and she might leave before you get to the desert

Here is what you ladies need to do……
1. We agree you all have to take your time to look pretty for this blind first date so when you come in smile at him and apologize for being late. Don’t blame it on traffic

2. Try not to interrogate him with your questions but ask him surface questions let him be the one to want to open up to you.

3. Always gaze towards him not at him it keeps him guessing

4. Comment on the restaurant if it’s a garden find something to comment on

Finally it is very important that you keep him guessing at all times about what you are thinking, looking at or smiling at.

SMILING DOES HAVE AN EFFECT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

A smile is a natural drug. There is no way you can smile on the outside without feeling good on the inside. You don't believe me give it a try.......mmmmmhhh see I told you so LoL.

Smiling also has a mental effect on the person smiling. If smiling does make you feel good think of what it does to someone else. Your smile alone can help a total stranger to get through a day so you never know what you do to others with your smile.

Now imagine a relationship without a smile in it..........uhuh you guessed right is like walking through a suicide hall,scary,gloomy and unpredictable. you have no idea is she's made at you, or she would be driving the kitchen knife down your throat the moment you turn your back on her. She is wondering what have I done to him today huh? why on earth is he frowning again. You both create suspicion between the two of you and you are always looking back trying to see if she going to hurt you or the other way round.

So lovers learn to smile with a smile I know you are happy to see me or you are just madly in love with me. Be positive oh no being positive is the same thing as smiling always. So lovers spice up your relationship with a smile.
Now that can't be so hard can it?

THE RIGHT TIME FOR SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP

You would agree that if I was looking for just sex in a relationship I would just go take a room at a brothel and get as many call girls as I want. But that’s not the case here; I want to tell you when to have sex in a relationship. Since we have made it clear that we are not just out for sex. Then let’s proceed
You will not be asking yourself questions like why did I let him sleep with me on the first day or did he just want me because of my body? Or even I knew I was not ready for sex. To avoid all the above here’s what you need to do.

Sex is not just a physical thing people it’s emotional and also spiritual. Every time you have sex with a guy no matter how you shut your heart down part of him is in you and if you see him tomorrow, next week, or next year you are still going to remember that night we slept together it was pretty intense.

YOU HAVE TO BE SURE
You have to be sure if you really want to have sex with him, don’t let anyone pressure you because some guys just hang around long enough for the sex part and then he’s gone. I mean I got what I was after so there is no need to stay is there. You don’t want him leaving you with teary eyes.

IS IT LONG ENOUGH?
 You also need to ask yourself how long have we been together a week, a month or maybe 6 month, a guy should be able to respect you and your body it’s ok to flirt I mean he’s your boyfriend now. If you feel you ready to connect with him on the emotional and spiritual level then you can go for it girl. If you are not let him know talk to him about it. If that’s not what he’s after he will understand you.

WHAT IF HE LEAVES AFTER THE SEX CAN I HANDLE IT
Now you should ask yourself if you can handle him leaving after you have had sex. It’s not just physical especially if you loved him it’s going to be difficult to just move on you can pretend that everything it’s ok but you are just lying to yourself. Now if you can handle it then you are ready for sex.

So ladies and hoping this article has helped you in the choosing the right time to open your legs to a guy. Stay one this article for ways to get over the trauma of sex related issues some things you can teach yourself to do to help forget about it and move on.

HOW TO GET A GUY TO REALLY WANT YOU 3 SIMPLE BUT EFFECTIVE WAYS

How does it feel knowing the guy you meet not 48hrs ago is thinking a lot about you and is calling you nonstop eh? I’ll answers that for you AWESOM! It is indeed a great feeling. You brag off to you girlfriends about him and they all want to know how you did that. First they want to know when you met him and how long you’ve been seeing each other. Your answer baffles them a lot. Don't you hate those women who seem to have guys lusting after them in every corner? They're so used to it they don't even notice half the time or even care.


Trust me anyone out there can do this even a cave woman can do this so you can just believe yourself. Wouldn't you love to have that kind of power and influence over any guy?  Trust me -- you can. 
This not about looks ladies ok looks is an added bonus but what you really need is confidence in yourself. I want you to ask yourself do I have confidence in myself.


Now my girlfriend usually sits alone while men flock around me...and I have to be honest, it's a REALLY nice feeling having the tables turned on her.


As you sit here and read through these three tips you'll slowly feel your confidence grow -- because you'll see you have the power within you to make men attracted to you.


You want guys to be attracted to you just like metal is attracted to a magnet. Let it be a force that draws them to you like magic. Let’s get you on the road ladies read on.


There are 3 simple things that you can do TODAY to add instant magnetic appeal.


TIP #1 – BE NATURAL
Don’t try to be who you are not, be yourself if there is anything guys hate is a girl trying to be who she isn’t. That will give you off as the kind of girl who isn’t proud of who she is. Guys hate fakers so be real, be natural, don’t borrowing your roommates dress just to impress him OK?


TIPS #2 – GO AFTER HIS HEART
His heart is what you are after; trust me one you have his heart every other thing will fall in place so here is what you need. Relax smile at him a lot it will create the mentality that you really like him. Understanding his heart understands him. Let there be no awkward moments between you ok. Try to be open to him it will make him comfortable.


TIP #3 – LET HIM DO THE IMPRESSING JOB IS HIS OCCUPATION.
Guys will always try to impress is their nature like the alpha-male in the pack trying to show off his hunting skills to the lady he has his eyes on. Try to laugh at his jokes even if they are not funny you are helping him to be himself I mean that what you want right. If he feels at home with you then girl you have nothing to worry about. If you flirt with him reduce it to the least minimum is it doesn’t send the wrong signal to him. You want him to be with you because of who you are not because of sex.

These 3 tips should put you line to an amazing relationship that you only see on TV. If you liked the tips feel free to go to my site and read more, leave a question, a comment I’ll be glad you did.