Sunday, October 10, 2010

FIGHTING IN A RELATIONSHIP



It baffles me a lot when I hear some couples say we’ve never had a fight in our relationship is that strange the answer is a big YES. This is why couples if you don’t fight now you will never know what makes you partner shut down yell back and scream or throw stuff.

Couples tend to fight over alot of things examples of those things are listed below
1. Money
2. Ex-lovers
3. Offspring
4. Work
5. Housekeeping
6. Sex
7. so much more...


Fighting makes the relationship stronger, now if you have a fight with your boyfriend because he always leaves the toilet seat down, or because you always want things done your way, that way you have to settle down and talk about it. Doesn’t talking make both of you better people. He’s not perfect sometimes he forgets and you are not perfect too sometime you will forget.


Fighting helps you appreciate one another on the long run. You maybe not be talking to yourselves now but go over why you two fought in the first place you’ll see that it actually does not make sense. Now that’s when you are calm and you are now thinking straight

Saturday, October 9, 2010

HOT TIPS ON HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN

It must hurt to see a woman you who makes your head spins but you don’t have the guts to go up to her and talk to her. Well you came to the right place today we are going to be looking at a few tips to adapt and get past your phobia of women.


First you need to work on your confidence it’s everything to a woman. Now a woman wants a man who is sure of what he wants and isn’t afraid to go after it. I want you and that period you can make all the excuse in the world but I am not going anywhere until you say you would go out with me. Women admire then. So believe in yourself and be confident.


Settle down compose yourself, don’t rush it. If you know you are going to lose your words the moment you get there just relax. Take a deep breath walk slowly to her and take your time while speaking to her don’t rush it. This makes her interested in what you have to say and not that you’ve got her attention pal you’ve her got the headway.


Always smile we don’t want you looking you just came out of a fist fight. Any woman who sees you with that kind of look would avoid you at all cost. So smile besides it makes you feel good inside too. It’s important to know that smiling does help in building your confidence when approaching a woman. It creates that curiosity in her and will have to listen to what you have to say.



So men, with these in mind and a little practice you will be able to approach any woman you see. Don’t just give up because it didn’t work the first time buddy you’ve got to build on it and be determined. Be willing to take the risk and you will be surprise and what you will discover.


A few years from now when you are sitting with woman of your dreams you might want to ask her what made her even listen to you when you approached her that night at the coffee shop or the club her answer will baffle you. Enjoy you day and if this helped you why not become a follower so that you get notified of new postings thank you.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

HOW TO DATE BOSSY WOMEN WHO WANT TO ALWAYS BE IN CONTROL

I have written on a lot of things but it will not be fair to not write on this one issue I know the men will love this, so ladies in control you better get ready.


Now I know these women can be insensitive to a lot thing, especially emotions now these women have trained themselves to be masters of the art I mean that’s how they got there in the first place. There is something you should know these women were not born that way something did happen along the way for them to be like that. They have made up their mind that there is no such thing as a happy ending.


This is where we get to work, do a background check on her thanks to the internet you will get some useful information about her, ask her friends you want to go out with this lady you’ve got to step up and ask her closest friend for help. Ask the friends questions like

If I want to surprise her, what can I do?
What makes her smile she could use it in her life?
You must be ready though she will not say yes to you at first but I’ll guarantee she’ll think about you. That’s what we want let her think. Take a break leave her alone for some while. Then resume your duties all over again. This time she will not shout at you but will lie to talk over things and you must have the perfect answer to this two questions “Why do you want to date go out with me?” and “What do you see in me?”


If your answer is perfect then you just got yourself a 2nd date don’t be afraid to take charge show her you are in charge, not her money or her influence will change that and she’ll love you more.
I hope this article gave you headway good luck now.

Monday, October 4, 2010

DATING TIPS FOR MEN ONLY


I just realized something; men are not really looking for dating tips but for dating ideas. If we are to take a survey on how many men actually take tips on dating from the internet the result will be in the 10percentile you know why because most men don’t think that anyone can actually give them a good advice that could get them what they are looking for be it a anything relating to the opposite sex.

You see no one is perfect and you can’t boldly say you have figured the opposite sex perfectly because that’s where you are wrong. The only thing constant in life is change. We are always evolving what we use to like before we don’t know why? Well because at some point in life we felt it was just stupid.

My one advice to men is be adaptive, do you research before launching a date attack on the unsuspecting lady. It helps to know what she likes, what makes her smile and as you all know ladies love surprises so be the her personal freak show in a good way and she will likely go out with you.
That’s my hot tip for men today but more will be coming so please follow me and you will be heading to a happy relationship.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

DATING EXCUSES YOU MUST ALWAYS AVOID USING

Hey it’s me again; I am here today with very important tips to pass on to you that it cannot wait. We al all love making excuses some are genuine some are not. First of all we don’t want out date to think of us as excuse makers that is a wrong message to send to your date on the first date. We all hate excuses don’t we?

You don’t want her going home thinking what a jerk so many excuses in one night or what a girl darn she good with excuses. We don’t want that. So I have compiled a list of excuse we always make and to avoid using them on your first date.

1.      Sorry for coming late, I got caught in traffic
2.      Sorry for coming late, I had a flat tire
3.      Sorry for coming late, I closed kinder late from work
4.      I’m so sorry I never been on a date before
5.      I am sorry I had a kid emergency.

We don’t want her ending the relationship that hasn’t even started at the date dinner. We want her to like us or him to like us. Take my advice stay clear of those excuses when you are going on a date try to not be late so you don’t have to use any off them OK?

Saturday, September 25, 2010

LET LOVE SLEEP OR JUST GIVE UP ON IT OR DON’T

If love is so wonderful, as so many poems beautifully write about in rhymes, shouldn’t people pursue it?
Now we all know that love could change your life and at the same time it could also destroy you. My heart bleeds every time I read in the papers that someone committed suicide because of love. You see love does have its negative effects.
Don't they look happy

We still have to risk it if we want to feel the love. We risk putting out heart out and letting someone take it from us but also hoping that that person will love us back and not break the heart. I read this love note sticker it read “ If you break my heart I will still love you with all the little pieces” I liked it a lot because it shows life does go on should I just kill myself because she said she was no longer interest or should she drug herself because of him huh?

Ladies and gentlemen while we love with our hearts lets also put a brain in it and not let reason walk out the window in our dating and relationship adventure. Because for every adventure we embark on we are bound to face hard times and good times but we still have to move on and hope we get to succeed. At the end of it we have a story to tell don’t we now? So have fun and enjoy your day

AN INTOXICATING LOVE (A POEM ABOUT LOVE)

I want to take you on a little trip from my usual tips giving and advice post to a new thing I will like to call erotic lyrics.

“Many water cannot quench love, rivers cannot wash it away”
Do the above make sense to you or should I explain further. Well the above is two lovers always declaring how to feel towards each other freely there is no shame in love but pride.
Love and Nature

Every time you turn on the radio and zip to any station, what you are likely to hear is……..”Love Songs” Songs of new love, songs  of disappointed love, songs of grateful love, songs of crazy love and songs of painful love. Times have changed but through history the flow of love songs still remains constant. Ok the sound has been changed a little but it still talks about the same thing Love.

Erotic songs, romantic songs played just to put you in the mood. It’s funny how one song can make you feel like you want to fly. Some songs actually speak to you and you suddenly like that singer because you have something in common.

Erotic lyrics show no embarrassment about lovers enjoying each other’s bodies, and talking about it. Lets imagine this for a sec “lovers love to look at each other, they love to tell each other what they feel. The revel in sensuous: the beauty of nature, the scent of perfumes and spices. They are openly erotic. Their intoxication with love sounds quite up-to-date not so different from what you hear on the radio.”

 Yet songs convey a very different atmosphere from most modern love songs. The explicit lyrics never become even slightly dirty. This love came from the Garden of Eden when both man and woman were both naked and unashamed of each other’s bodies.
Unashamed Of The World

And yes I do read the bible it helps brings light to some things that are in the dark. If you like these articles feel free to become a follower thank you and enjoy your day.
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